Harta Dan Rupa Tak Penting.. Betul ke?

"Saya tak kisah pasal rupa, asalkan dia mampu bahagiakan saya"
"Harta tu tak menjamin kebahagiaan pun"

Diatas adalah antara beberapa ayat yang kononnya tak kisah sangat pasal harta dan rupa. Yess, betul tapi kalau anda sendiri jenis yang memang ade harta sendiri as in dompet tebal dengan duit & credit card yg boleh diguna, dalam personal acc bank ade saving over 4 angka *(exclude nilai sen) dan memang TAK KISAH langsung pasal rupa.

In my onion opinion lah, selain daripada amalan agamanya yang tiptop dan budi pekerti yang chunn, rupa paras DOES matter to me. Sebab kita yang akan tengok dia hari2. Bila saya cakap pasal rupa paras ni, tak semestinya kau perlu lawa macam neelofa/mayakarin/nora danish/khairi jmludin/faizal tahir etc.. Apa yang saya maksudkan disini ialah, dia ada rupa yang bila kita dan orang sekeliling tengok dia *espesheli kita, rasa tenang jee, rasa damai jee..

As for Harta. To me it is quite important too. It is also tak perlu terlalu mewah. Cukup lah ade rumah sebiji & kereta sebiji. Tak payah nak grand2 sangat pun, like audi s8 and banglo 3 storeys.. asalkan selesa sudah coz you and your spouse will have a long time to upgrade your life together later on.

To girls out there, sedarlah anda bahawa negara Malaysia Boleh ini ekonominya tak berapa nak cantik, kos sara hidup makin tinggi dan macam2 lagi. Berhenti berangan nak dapat Prince Charming from Far Far Away Land. He doesn't exist. And if he does, what makes you think that he will come to you?

So bukak mata, bukak minda, educate parents/guardians and yourself untuk tak meletakkan hantaran mahal2. Kecian kat pihak lelaki yang baru nak mulakan kerjaya/kurang berkemampuan.

Above all ape yang paling penting is dia mampu secara berterusan mendekatkan diri kita dengan Allah. Moga2 kita mendapat jodoh yang baik.. Aminn.

Sekali lagi diingatkan ini hanyalah pendapat peribadi semata2. Bukan niat nak tuju kasut kat siapa2.

Saja nak bagi tahu

Dealing with someone's imperfections and differences.

The process of accepting is not really easy but once you did it, the sweetness in the relationship might grow beautifully each and everyday.. You'll get to know the person even better right?.

The process of leaving might be very simple as ABC, but if you find out that someone's imperfections and can't bear it, at least give yourself and your partner a chance to accept each other.

The main points are:
-Try to accept, differences, imperfections and diversities.
-Less argue over the small matter.
-Think wisely and discuss calmly before act. *decision making process
-Give yourself a chance in getting to  know someone.

Siti Saidatina Khatijah Binti Mohammad Faithal
Tarikh lahir : 22 December
Asal : Ipoh, Perak
SK Sg. Raia
SK Tmn Perpaduan
SK Tmn Bersatu
SMK Simpang Pulai
UiTM Pulau Pinang
Suka melancong & warna biru

Ciri-ciri lelaki idaman:
Fizikal: Tinggi, Manis sejuk mata memandang, Kulit sawo matang, Kemas dan Wangi
Perwatakan: Jujur, Romantik, Berkepimpinan, Pandai buat lawak, Sopan, Matang dan Cool
Kewangan: Hmm, ni kita boleh discuss kemudian.